The Rule of Three

Pigs, wise men, musketeers.  Veni, vidi, vici.  Waltz, minuet, scherzo.  Red, yellow, blue.  Larry, Curley and Moe.  Triangles!

From the very beginning of our Fairy Tale theme, our PreKindergarten class latched on to the Rule of Three with passion, preoccupation and persistence. Six weeks later, they are still going strong; finding threes in everything from the days of the month to the number of clouds in the sky, to the words that fall from their teachers’ lips. (“Ms. Pratt, you just told Khoi to put away the playdough three times!“)

Of course, an exploration of Fairy Tales is the perfect venue for that magical number three, and its deliciously concrete foundation is perfect for this age.  When we read a new tale, eyes shine, ears sharpen and hands itch to shoot in the air with yet another example of that magical number to share.

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A morning meeting brainstorm session: things that come in threes.

The three building blocks of a  CRS classroom (constructivism, creativity and connections) allow us the freedom to respond to the interests of our students, and adjust our curriculum accordingly.   For our fairy tales theme, this meant taking the number three and running with it mathematically and literally – in the true sense of the word.

Paul Galdone’s version of the Three Little Kittens, is a dream of a book; it rhymes, it repeats, the sequence is clear, and that whole kittens-lose-things-and-mommy-gets-mad-so-they-don’t-get-pie thing just plays right into the psyche of a five-year old.  After reading (and singing) it together as a class, we challenged our students to sequence the story from beginning to end.

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PreK’s sequence of The Three Little Kittens, by Paul Galdone.

Why write the sequencing of four and five year olds on a whiteboard?  Children love to see their words in print (even messy print) – it gives them validity and importance.  As they dictated and I wrote, children raised their hands to make the following observations:

  • There are eleven different things that happened in Three Little Kittens!
  • They go just like a book: across, and then down and over and across again!
  • Why does each thing start with T?
  • Each thing starts with Th!  I see They and The!
  • It says “The End!”

The next day’s morning question sported three mysterious plastic counting bears. What were they doing there?

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“These make me think of…”

The three bears on the morning question made our students think of a variety of things, some of which they spelled and wrote themselves. BARS (bears), BIG, MED, SMALL; DRTH MOL (the Star Wars character Darth Maul apparently sports the same bright red of the middle bear); sizes; MAE (me – Arturo does look like a teddy bear!); PATTERN and BOOK.  Answering the morning question is all about reading, thinking, writing, language, speaking and listening – all of the language arts in one fell swoop.

The inevitable three little piggies made their first of many appearances one Wednesday morning, as part of Thematic Explorations time.  In search of a more global version, we read The Three Little Javelinas, by  Susan Lowell. The story structure is similar to the classic version, but the javelinas make their houses out of tumbleweeds, saguaro cacti and adobe bricks, and the wolf is replaced by a coyote.

Once we had read the story, we challenged our PreKers to build houses that that their teachers (The Two Ms. Coyotes) could not blow down, using classroom building materials.  We paired them up, and put them to work:

Lucas and Mia chose to build a house of blocks

Lucas and Mia chose to build a house of blocks

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Alana and Tucker used jumbo Cuisinaire Rods.

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Ollie, Khoi and Sam used Magneatos. There was heated discussion over how to make the structure stable.

Success!

Success!

Jack and Isabella began with Tinker Toys, but after several collapsed efforts, moved on to other materials.

Jack and Isabella began with Tinker Toys, but after several collapsed efforts, moved on to other materials.

"Ms. Srikanth, can you blow this down?"

“Ms. Srikanth, can you blow this down?”

Thematic teaching means watching for the “sparks,” those moments of collective excitement and engagement, and fanning those sparks into flames that inspire further exploration.  A true test of the educational value of an activity in PreKindergarten is whether or not students in the class choose to recreate it, explore it in greater depth, or carry it further of their own accord.  So Vanita and I were more than thrilled when our students asked us to “put out these things again tomorrow so we can build some more pig houses.”  Here they are the next morning, during their free play time.

Jack and Lucas revisiting the

Jack and Lucas building coyote-proof housing

Tucker, Sam and Ollie building a piggy mansion

Tucker, Sam and Ollie building a piggy mansion

The ultimate pig domain

The ultimate pig domain.  Can you find the piggy?

It took several days of immersion in the rule of three before PreKers made a connection between our fairy tale threes and the shape and parts of a triangle.  No longer just any old shape, but a shape with three corners and three sides, the triangle took on new importance in the classroom.  We worked on drawing them:

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For our own sadistic pleasure, Vanita and I included an instruction asking parents to sing the triangle poem, to the tune of Three Blind Mice.

And we discovered that depending how you turn them, triangles can look a bit different from each other.

An orientation pattern

An orientation pattern

We even had a triangle treasure hunt, where we challenged our PreKers to find objects in the room and make triangles.  Each triangle had to be made out of multiple pieces of the same material.

Classroom triangles

Classroom triangles

It’s funny how thematic trajectories like our students’ obsession with the Rule of Three ends up drawing us into their world.  They haven’t let go of threes yet, and neither have I.  I’ve renamed a particularly tight group of mischievous boys,”Hear no evil, see no evil, and speak no evil.”   Vanita and I have created a song for the May Day Assembly entitled “Big Bad Wolf Mashup” which contains three kittens, three bears and three piggies. And did you know that the popular hand game Rock, Paper, Scissors contains three items?  PreKers are particularly fond of choosing “rock,” and whacking fellow “scissors” with a fair amount of force, causing – you guessed it – blood, sweat and tears.

The Evolution of a Parallel Universe

My husband and I love to engage in parallel play before bedtime.

Before you groan and close your browser in disgust, please give me the benefit of the doubt, and read at least a little further.

Parallel play is one of those terms early childhood teachers love to use, right along with its partners in crime: Solitary, Cooperative and Associative. Together these terms describe the developing complexities and subtleties of play as social behavior. There is nothing new or trendy about this vocabulary: these terms were coined over eighty years ago by sociologist Mildred Parten, and teachers have been using them to characterize children’s play ever since. It helps to see the stages as a simple developmental hierarchy: children learn to play, and concurrently children learn to play with each other.  The older they get, the better they get at the cooperative and collaborative aspects of play.

CRS Kindergarten teacher Lisa Larcenaire once jokingly referred to the common nighttime behavior of couples lying side by side in bed, propped up on pillows, intently surfing personal laptops while engaging in occasional mismatched verbal revelations, as “parallel play,” and the term stuck.  Parallel play distinguishes itself from solitary play by close proximity, and an awareness of each other. The only material Larry and I share during parallel play time is the Advil bottle, and if there were only two capsules left, we would fight over them.

Social play behaviors are at the heart of what we see, model and support in the PreKindergarten classroom. Four to five year-olds generally come to school each year fairly well-versed in solitary and parallel play, while their relative strategies and skills with more complex and cooperative play behaviors vary greatly.  This makes perfect sense from a developmental perspective, as a child’s awareness of same-age peers as potential play partners is closely tied to his own egocentrism: if the world is all about me and my needs and desires, why should I cooperate and compromise with others?  What’s in it for me?  

Parallel, associative and cooperative play all in one shot

Parallel play is pretty much is just as it sounds, involving two (or more) children playing near each other, in similar fashion, but each doing their own thing. Picture the child building a house of Lincoln Logs on the rug, while close by another child is building a zoo of animals. Each child is perhaps talking as he or she builds, and is speaking with an awareness of the peer close by. But the conversation is not interactive: Miss Lincoln Logs might say, “And I’m going to put a window right here just like the window in Grandma’s house. I went to Grandma’s house yesterday and she gave me cookies.” Mr. Zoo might interrupt this monologue to state “And then the elephant ate up all the panda bears and knocked down the elephant house.” There is awareness, but little to no interaction, and no attempts to influence the other’s play.

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This type of parallel play situation could (and frequently does) evolve into associative play. Let’s say Miss Lincoln Logs, hearing about the panda bear tragedy, decides she needs one or two bears to finish off Grandma’s cookies. “Can I have two panda bears?” she asks Mr. Zoo. “I’m going to give them cookies at Grandma’s house.” Mr. Zoo answers “You can have one panda bear that escaped from the elephant. All the others are aten up.” The children are still playing their own games and driving their own stories, but the level of awareness of each other’s play has risen, and there is conversation and trading of materials. Larry and I even have moments where we venture into associative play territory at night – when he’s the dummy in his on-line bridge game he can actually hear what I’m saying, and may even grunt in response.

Associative play

Associative play

In PreKindergarten, associative play situations often evolve into cooperative play behavior, though the length of time cooperative play can be sustained before conflict ensues varies greatly. Mr. Zoo has been watching the panda bear eat cookies with interest. “I know!” he says. “The elephant can escape from the zoo and come to Grandma’s house!” Miss Lincoln Logs looks a bit worried, and covers Grandma’s log house with her hands to protect it from a raging, murderous elephant. “Okay, but the elephant just wants cookies, and then he’ll be happy,” she announces. Mr. Zoo concurs, and with a mutually agreed upon plan and shared materials, a bout of cooperative play is underway.  Cooperative play is a gratifying experience for young children, and worth all that hard work.  One look at Tucker’s and Sam’s faces as they stand next to their multi-level garage is proof positive!

Cooperative play

Cooperative play

During our Water theme, Vanita and I experienced some cooperative play of our own coming up with new and interesting ways to explore water in the classroom. We built waterways out of pipes and clamped them to the water table for the children to explore. (Our students, with much shared joy and excitement, promptly figured out how to adjust the pipes so that all the water landed on the floor.)  Our crowning achievement was our waterwall, complete with funnels, tubing, bottles and an aquarium hand pump. These materials kept our little explorers, who trotted about their days sporting dripping sleeves, wet blotches on pants and shirts, and squeaky sneakers, engaged in scientific play for weeks on end.

Our Waterwall

Our Waterwall – I think we were just as proud of our work as Tucker and Sam!

I went through photographs from our water play recently, and found myself looking at the pictures through the lens of Parten’s stages of play behavior. Both the sensory table and waterwall encourage constructive play and exploration; there were certain children who gravitated towards these areas independently, but more frequently, the waterwall became a focal point for social play that fluctuated from parallel to associative to cooperative and back many times over the course of a morning.

As I examined the photos, it struck me how difficult it was to separate my subjective understanding of each child from my interpretation of the play captured in the picture.  I’m posting a series of these photos in the hopes that others who are less familiar  - even unfamiliar – with the children, will enjoy using the lens of stages of social play to experience the pictures in a different way.  And of course, I’d love any comments on what you see!

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Digging a Hole to China

It is mid-morning on a warm and cloudy October day, and the sounds of the playground are at full pitch.  Balls are bouncing, swings are creaking, children are talking, laughing and shouting as they run, dart and climb.  Meanwhile, a small group of four and five-year olds is huddled in the sandbox around a good-sized hole.  Using shovels, scoops, a yellow plastic construction digger, and in one case a large plastic dinosaur, they continue to dig deeper.  After a bit, one child puts down his shovel, leans head first into the hole and shouts, “Ollie, are you down there?”

Before you worry where this story is headed, Ollie is not in fact buried in the sandbox.  But in the minds of his fellow classmates, he might as well be.  Ollie has taken a trip with his family to China, and his friends are determined to make contact.

Earlier that day, in an effort to demonstrate Ollie’s whereabouts, I held up a globe with one index finger on Massachusetts and the other on China.  To a four-year old the enormity of the world is inconceivable, but the idea that Ollie was on the other side (roughly) of a very large ball  captured their interest.  With the curiosity and imagination of true scientists, they looked at the globe and began thinking, What if…

The notion that children demonstrate scientific behavior in play is not new; I would even suggest a corollary – that scientists demonstrate playful behavior in the laboratory.  Play is, by its very nature, creative; it opens one’s mind to new possibilities and allows the freedom to explore the “what ifs,” the “if, thens,” and the “if not, then whats?”  The scientific laboratory of the four-year old won’t win medals for organization, cleanliness or rigorous standards; it is in fact gloriously messy, randomly inspired and riddled with compromise, but most importantly, it is full of wonder, curiosity and the confidence to explore.

Play in the early childhood classroom is not one behavior:  at times it is an open-ended exploration of materials, at times a pile of wrestling puppies, and at times a group facilitated endeavor or game – a community hole digging project, for instance.  But all play behaviors share distinguishing qualities.  Boston College professor Peter Gray defines play as embodying five main characteristics:

“(1) Play is self-chosen and self-directed; (2) Play is activity in which means are more valued than ends; (3) Play has structure, or rules, which are not dictated by physical necessity but emanate from the minds of the players; (4) Play is imaginative, non-literal, mentally removed in some way from “real” or “serious” life; and (5) Play involves an active, alert, but non-stressed frame of mind.”

Child’s play is just that – play by and for children – and as a rule, we teachers deliberately limit our role to surreptitious observation, and support with finding materials, solving conflicts and cleaning up messes.  Whether and how we join in play on any given day is part of the larger philosophical question of how to balance that early childhood teacher role: where do we observe, facilitate, scaffold, listen and lead?  Where do we stand back and let our children fail?  How many dead ends do we allow them to pursue before making an observation, asking a question or providing helpful information?  Seeing our PreKindergarteners as scientists exploring in a laboratory helps us to clarify those edges and give reason to each aspect of our role.

Psychologist Alison Gopnik, a well-known expert in children’s learning and development, has spent her career looking at the cognitive development of children.  Her research has centered on the concept of what she terms “theory theory;” the idea that children intuitively act like scientists in their play and exploration.  Like scientists, she argues, children rely on three general cognitive behaviors to gather information: they look for patterns, they experiment, and they observe the experiments of others.  They integrate newly observed information with their prior knowledge and even make broad generalizations.

In recent studies, both Gopnik and psychologist Christine Legare have explored children’s ability to predict both causal and counterfactual relationships in play. (Think of a typical causal relationship as a child’s reasoning that wearing rain boots will keep his feet from getting wet, and counterfactual reasoning as the same child with wet feet, saying “If Mommy hadn’t forgotten to pack my boots, my feet wouldn’t have gotten wet today.”)   Legare’s recent work has concentrated on presenting children with materials that behave in a consistent, predictable manner that enables children to identify causal relationships, and then introducing an anomaly into the presentation. “Why did that happen?” she asks.  ”Can you tell me more?  Do you have any other ideas?”

An example of counterfactual reasoning

Legare has found strong evidence in her work that children respond to inconsistencies in causal relationships with increased curiosity and interest.  They spend more time exploring the materials, summoning prior knowledge, making and trying out hypotheses and crafting verbal explanations for what they see.  We see evidence of this heightened interest in our classroom daily; the inconsistencies are as simple as the block that won’t balance properly and as complex as the conflict that arises when three participants in a dramatic game want to be the Mommy.  When we step into these situations and try to “fix” them or influence the outcome, we rob our students of the chance to be physicists and peacemakers.

Meanwhile Ollie is still in China, and PreK’s efforts at reaching him through the sandbox are going nowhere quickly.  One particularly informed five-year old has shared the exciting news that there is hot burning lava in the center of the earth, and the anxious faces of his classmates suggest that this is an area of great and grave interest: what will happen to us if we keep on digging?  Gradually, concern that flames lurk just under the surface of the sandbox prevails, and the children step warily back from their hole.

In the laboratory of the sandbox, the children have not been able to prove their original hypothesis,  ab, and they conclude that digging a hole in the sand will not lead to Ollie. That flaming ball of lava in the middle of the earth provides great fodder for counterfactual reasoning (“We would have been able to reach Ollie if the fire hadn’t been down there!”);  the very idea is both exciting and scary, which makes its pull irresistible.

As much as we would like to, Vanita and I are unable to provide our students with the sophisticated digging equipment they need for further research (a fireproof earth bisecting submarine?).  Sadly, our PreK  Science Laboratory has fallen prey to the same funding shortages plaguing most scientific research.  In a grown-up  laboratory, PreK’s attempt to dig to China would be considered an unsuccessful experiment. In the science laboratory of early childhood play, however, each  failure is simply an anomaly worth further investigation: a starting point for new ideas and a search for a greater depth of understanding.  New questions have arisen from the digging experiment.  Why couldn’t we dig that hole?  What is under that sandbox, really?  Is there fire?  Is it poisonous?

The phrase “teachable moment” has become cliché, but Vanita and I sense that we have reached one.  Our playful scientists have exhausted their resources and funding, and are looking to us for new avenues of support.  Their play has initiated a heightened level of interest in the earth, and what goes on beneath the surface.  They are ripe to make meaningful connections with a good book.

Faith McNulty’s How To Dig A Hole To The Other Side Of The World is met with rapt attention, many questions and thoughtful observations.  McNulty invites our PreK children to travel deep down through the earth and learn about rocks, geysers, basalt, hidden pools of water, the mantle and that flaming hot core at the center. (Which, we point out, is way way way far away from our sandbox.)

It has been a couple of weeks now since our PreK children first dug their hole to China. To the joy of his classmates, Ollie has returned unharmed from his journey.  Meanwhile Hurricane-Post-Tropical-Cyclone-Superstorm Sandy has blown through, dumping wind and water, taking out part of the 6th grade roof and giving us a couple of unexpected days off from school.   We return to find our classroom and playground reassuringly intact.

That is, except for the sandbox, where the PreKindergarten hole to China has undergone a surprising transformation.  Our children crowd around in fascination, alternately extending a foot to touch the surface and bending over to stare in.  There is no need to worry about flames anymore, for the hole is deep and full of water.  As the children lean over the hole, we can hear their voices rising with excitement.

“What if…”

Learning Between the Lines

A guest post by my terrific co-teacher, Vanita Srikanth

“Ms. Srikanth?” a PreK-er pipes up. “Is it night time for the big feet right now?” “Well,” I begin, not really sure where this conversation is going, “I don’t think there really is such a thing as big foot…” I get a withering stare in response. “I mean our pen pals!” she adds disdainfully. Oh. Whoops.

This year, Karen and I decided it would be fun to have penpals from another country. We study messages and communication as one of our themes, and are constantly looking for ways to make our curriculum take on a more global focus. My grandmother, who has been an early childhood Montessori teacher for as long as I can remember, was able to put us in touch with a Kindergarten class at the Little Feat Montessori school in Bangalore, India, who responded with eagerness and enthusiasm to our idea of forming a relationship.

This PreK-er’s question about whether it was night time for the big “feet” stemmed from a discussion that we had after writing our first email to our penpals. In this email, we introduced ourselves, asked the burning questions (“what color is the door in your classroom?” “do you have a playground?”), and shared a little bit of information about ourselves. We ended our email with a request for them to write back to us. When we clicked “send” on the email, I explained to them that the email would reach India right away, but that since it was night in India and all the students were sleeping, they probably would not read it until the morning.   Twenty fours later, the next morning in our time zone, we received an email from the school’s principal, thanking us for our email and letting us know that the children were handwriting us letters and would be sending them to us in the postal mail.

I’ll admit, I was a bit surprised when we heard that each child was handwriting a letter back to us. They’re still just in Kindergarten, I kept telling myself. Even having parents who grew up in India and being married to someone who spent the first 30 years of his life there, I remain woefully ignorant of the Indian education system, save for a summer I spent during college interning in a Montessori school in Bangalore.  I knew that there was a strict focus on rules, behavior, and neatness, but due to the small sample size (one school an educational system does not make), I couldn’t really come to any sort of overarching conclusion about what a PreK and Kindergarten curriculum must be like there.

Two weeks later, Karen and I received a package in the mail from our penpals. We opened it while the children were out of the room to organize the letters, and were shocked (I believe jaws may have dropped) to find 20 beautiful handwritten letters, done in perfect cursive, complete with detailed drawings with not a trace of scribbling.

Reading our letters from India

Ok, Karen and I brainstormed, what are we going to have our children do? Do we make them handwrite letters back? What about the spelling? The drawing?  In the end, we decided to have our class draw pictures back to their penpals. We would write their words, and they would be responsible for signing their names at the end of their letters.  The result of these letters was exactly what I would expect a 4- and 5-year old’s work to look like.

An example of a PreK penpal letter

An example of a Little Feat Kindergarten penpal letter

But why is there such a stark contrast in the letters? And more importantly, does it matter? My gut instinct would be to say absolutely not. Schooling is different in different countries for many reasons, a number of them being cultural.  What I took away from my conversations with my husband and my mother is that schooling in India, unlike a lot of early childhood schooling that happens in the United States, is solely an academic experience. There is no time spent on social/emotional learning, no thought given to the importance of play in learning, and little need for teaching cooperation, sharing, and other social skills. The reason for this is that most of the social learning for children happens at home, where it is extremely common to have multiple generations of families living in one home, games on the street take the place of games on the playground, and cooperation and sharing skills are learned within the confines of the home and among regular social events with extended family.

So why do we do things differently here? Why are we so happy with and so in favor of our more play-based and hands-on curriculum? The fact is, free play is one of my favorite times of the day. Within a 45-minute span we see cooperation, sharing ideas and listening to the ideas of others, working through conflicts with words (and yes, occasionally still our hands), thinking logically about next steps, and showing kindness and compassion to one another. Because the reality is that all those core academic skills—the beautiful handwriting, the ability to draw representationally– will develop and be strengthened with time.  When you look back ten years from now, it’s not going to matter that your child wrote his “L” backwards for all of PreK, or that a picture of a horse looked more like four lines and two dots.  What is going to matter is that during your child’s early schooling, he learned to love school, to be excited about learning, to think critically, to ask questions, to be okay with making mistakes, to take risks, to engage with curriculum, to navigate social relationships, and to be an active participant in a classroom. And here’s the kicker: all of these skills come from play-based and exploratory learning.

PreK students immersed in cooperative play

I think it’s important to recognize that curriculum emerges within specific cultural contexts, so comparing them in absolute terms, particularly for young children, is not productive. Our play-based and hands-on approach to learning comes from our assumptions of what is important for children to learn at this age. Given that children spend much of their weekdays at school, this type of social/emotional learning plays an important role in their academic development as well. So look on the bright side: we’ll take care of the hitting, fighting, and tantrums for you.

Well, most of the time anyways…

The Enchantment of Four-and-a-Half

I’ve had to address the question of why I love teaching four to five year olds many times over the years, and have yet to come up with a good answer.  In fact I’m pretty horrified with the different attempts I’ve committed to print, which include such vague phrases as “more independent,” “less egocentric” and “developing self-regulation.”  These are terms that could apply to many ages; I might argue that there are a number of middle-aged men still working on developing these skills.

But PreKindergarten truly is my favorite age to teach, and as slippery as it is to capture with words, I know there are good reasons behind my love for it.

“When I was a baby I couldn’t play
spinning tops.
Now that I’m bigger, I can!”

The enchantment of four-and-a-half (give or take a half year) is in the details.  It rests with the way children this age respond to stories, they way they react to unexpected events, their fumbling attempts at logical reasoning.  It is in the rich interplay between fact and fantasy, the side-splitting laughter at the word “underwear,” and the fluidity of gender play and expectation.  The magic of PreKindergarten is in the myriad reactions children this age have to their world; reactions that cannot occur one year earlier, and will have all but disappeared one year later. Four-and-a-half-year olds live in a delicious stretch where they are old enough to respond to the world, and young enough to be honest about what they see.

One of the side effects of this honesty is that Vanita and I have to be pretty good-humored about the running commentary on our appearances.  The classically Indian shape of Vanita’s nose has taken a verbal beating, as has the zigzag scar on my face left from a childhood car accident and the fit of my jeans (too tight, Ms. Pratt).  Our technology specialist has been asked why he wears the same shirt every time he comes in the room, and a visiting teacher was asked if she was going to die soon, since she looked so very old.  My current favorite commentary also signals a personal victory: after two years of cancer treatment, losing my hair and wearing scarves, I now have an Einsteinian mass of wild, thick curly gray hair to contend with.  The other day, while I was in the middle of reading a story to the group, one child took advantage of a pause as I turned the page and commented in a loud voice, “You have BIG hair.”  I’ve never been so happy to hear those words!

One of the most endearing aspects of this age is the relative lack of attitude and judgment.  Those children with older siblings have picked up some skill with social commentary and criticism, but for the most part their attempts at exclusion and teasing are blatantly obvious and thus easily quashed.  Only in PreKindergarten can one be witness – as I was last week – to a cheerfully shouted conversation between two boys in adjoining bathrooms.  They were comparing not only karate skills, but the number of bathroom accidents they had had in PreKindergarten.  When it comes to four-and-a-half, pretty much everything falls under the category of More is Better.

PreKindergarten is the Year of Lateral Thinking.  No matter what topic we begin with, in a book or in conversation, the thoughts and ideas of four-and-a-half-year olds  jump rapidly sideways, like a game of telephone gone horribly astray. PreKindergarten teachers have only two options: fight your hardest to keep the subject on track, or sit back and enjoy the ride – it’s likely to be a wild one.  I frequently feel like a bull rider at a rodeo, trying to hang on to a bucking bronco.  During meeting times, I often  find myself gripping the sides of my stool.

Lately, I’ve discovered that no matter what we are reading or talking about, we seem to end up on the subject of being eaten by sharks. The manipulation of the topic is both skillful and collaborative:

Topic: Digging a hole through the earth to the other side → getting burned up in the middle → if you don’t get burned you will end up in Australia → no, you will be in the ocean near Australia → where you will get eaten by the sharks.

Topic: The drop in my drink comes from → the fwidge → the sink → the water cooler → the lake → are there sharks in the lake? → no, they’re in the ocean → where you will get eaten up by the sharks.

Topic: What kinds of things should we add to our class picture of a thunderstorm? → raindrops → clouds → lightening → thunder → puddles → the ocean → sharks  →  you will get eaten by the sharks.

(I have to confess that on one particularly stressful Friday morning, it occurred to me that the threat of being eaten by sharks could inform a particularly effective plan of behavior management.)

But now it is just after 1 pm – the end of a long day, and time for our end-of-day story.  I have chosen Alice the Fairy by David Shannon, – a marvelous story of a little girl who celebrates her imaginative powers as a “temporary” fairy.  She has her own special magic wand, wings and blanket, and uses them to make things disappear and to get herself both in and out of trouble.  Like all Shannon books, the pictures are captivating, and our four-and-a-half year olds – a class that is unusually boy heavy – are glued to the pages as we read along.

As I read I notice one boy, sitting very close to our dress up rack, reach his hand out slooowly and gently lift a pink sparkly dress up shoe off the rack.  He follows this by surreptitiously capturing its mate, and then quietly and methodically removes his sneakers and begins to put the dress up shoes on.

I continue to read with one eye on the book, and one on the circle of children on the floor.  The boy sitting next to the wearer of the sparkly flats is now reaching for the rack, hooking a powder blue Cinderella heel, and placing it in his lap.  His neighbor on the other side, not to be outdone, leans back and reaches behind him to take procure the second Cinderella heel.  I pretend I haven’t noticed a thing and continue to read.  This is just too good a ride.

The original Cinderella heel heister, unable to find the mate, soon discovers that the missing heel has been lifted by his next door neighbor.  A brief and silent tug of war commences, leaving one boy with both heels and the other digging about the dress up rack – no longer quietly – in search of other options.

By now, I realize I’ve ridden that bucking bronco right out of the stadium.  I put down Alice the Fairy with several pages to go, and announce, “It looks like maybe we need to stop reading, and turn into temporary fairies for a while.  Go ahead and put together your oufits.”

A few of the more compliant and attentive children look at me warily, but I repeat, “Go, go ahead!  I’m giving you permission!” At this, all of PreKindergarten scrambles for the dress-up area and joyfully begins to put together fairy costumes. The entire group is happily involved, and despite an occasional scuffle over popular items, they are cooperating with enthusiasm and bonhomie.

Vanita and I watch with great enjoyment as the fairy show develops.  I grab my phone, and offer to photograph each temporary fairy when they are dressed and ready.  Our fairies pose eagerly.

Now ask me again: what is the enchantment of four-and-a-half?

That’s easy – it’s a classroom full of temporary fairies. ;-)

The Faces of PreKindergarten

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All I Really Need To Know I Learned Playing Board Games

Once upon a time, before technology took charge of our lives, children played board games.

Full disclosure here: I am an aging but full-fledged computer geek; an iPhone carrying member of the Baby Boomer generation. My husband’s greatest rival for my attention fits in my hand, my children and pets don’t sit on my lap because my laptop usually gets there first, and these days I spend more time playing Words With Friends than I do rolling the dice on a backgammon board.

But board games – good board games – have tremendous value for children. And while there are some true beauts on the digital front, not a one holds a candle to a tangible game of Froggie Boogie, Secret Door or The Big Fat Tomato Game between real human beings who are close enough to touch each other (or throw the dice at each other) during play.

Crazy Eights, Go Fish, Checkers, Clue, Monopoly; back in my day, all self-respecting five-year olds could hold their own with a deck of cards, a pair of dice, and a watchful eye for a cheating older brother or sister.  If we were lucky, parents occasionally played with us, providing us with role models for game manners, and challenging us to new levels of play.  Who among us didn’t want to beat a parent, fair and square?  (Of course, our parents didn’t always have good game manners.  I still remember the 1974 Christmas Eve Parcheesi fiasco, when my parents went to bed no longer on speaking terms.  And my mother has never forgiven my ex-husband for playing “pinney” in Scrabble one summer vacation – “that’s not a real word!” - though it has been at least fifteen years.)

I love the idea of Friday family game night, though we are often so tired after a hard week that it is difficult to summon the requisite energy and enthusiasm. What gets lost when we don’t play, unfortunately, could fill a book on educating children.  I cannot think of a single aspect of child development; social growth, executive function, academic skill,  or a curriculum area that is not addressed in some way by the right board game.  Try me, please.

In Kindergarten at CRS, teachers Kristin Jayne and Lisa Larcenaire have always made games part of their curriculum.  Lisa underscores how many important concepts and skills are addressed during games, adding, “(children) … take turns, face frustration and disappointment, ask questions to clarify, reassess options in the face of new information, compromise, explain their thinking, reach consensus  and strategize.  Kindergartners often connect with a particular game,  and may take responsibility for teaching it to classmates and family.  When they do, they share in the enjoyment of the participants and feel powerful in their role in making it happen.”

Last year, inspired by their example and the increasing number of really good quality board games on the market for younger children, Vanita and I began to develop a year-long Puzzles and Games curriculum for PreKindergarten.  A number of companies (my personal favorites are Gamewright, BlueOrange, Family Pastimes and Ravensburger), put out quality games that are visually and tactilely appealing as well as thought-provoking. With these games, we practice cooperation and self-control, solve conflicts, take turns, and learn to win and lose with grace. We invite friends to play, ask to join in games, and learn to stay with something until it is over.  We learn that “fair” is a complicated word that depends upon your point of view, and that reaching compromise is a lifelong task.

Good games provoke imagination, creative thought, logic building, and help hone memory skills.  Many also challenge children to use mathematical thinking, visualize shapes and colors, or practice reading skills. Others still encourage verbal creativity, or expose us to ideas and artifacts from another place or time.  Don’t underestimate future benefits from this exposure, either.  My brother and I loved to play a board game called Masterpiece as children and  over forty years later, we can both still identify each and every work of art in the game.

One of the most important benefits of consistent and regular game playing for children is the manner in which it so beautifully demonstrates the process of developmentally appropriate learning within a differentiated context.  Think of the game Qwirkle, for example, where players try to match tiles according to color and shape.  Children can begin to play this game at its most basic level as soon as they are comfortable identifying and distinguishing between the colors and shapes in the game (there are six of each).  Each subsequent game gives a child a chance to practice and hone the skills they have developed, and to begin to make inferences and explore new strategies.  The more a child plays, the more he learns, but the concepts are never frustratingly out of reach because the child “constructs” his learning at his own pace.

One valuable lesson I’ve learned while playing games with children is to refrain from “teaching” them strategy.  Vanita and I make observations, ask occasional questions, referee when necessary, and model strategies with our own play.  We want our students to enjoy the many challenges inherent in a variety of games, not become eight year-old chess masters.  Their grasp of strategy will be much more solid and satisfying in the long run if it is self-directed. To quote CRS first grader Mackenzie, explaining why City Square Off is her favorite game, “I like it because I have to plan and think ahead about what I’m going to do.”  Her mom, Annie, concurs, “ We have to think and negotiate our choices on that one. The funny thing is she usually beats me. I love it because we talk and change the rules together.”


What are the hardest things for a fledgling game player to learn?   In PreK, the toughest lessons at first seem to be waiting for a turn, sticking with a game until it’s over, and putting it away properly when they’re finished.

Oh, and learning to roll dice so that they land within fifteen feet of the board. ;-)